Therefore, being forced to verbally interact with a new romantic interest can really catch him off guard.The majority of his responses are going to be quick, one-word replies — as he will most likely not throw the same questions back at you.
My friend ended up texting the girl asking when they could talk, and they talked the next day for 20 minutes, and he said it was “just alright, I dunno? I asked if he’s ever had an amazing first phone call with someone he barely knew, and he said he had, but it never resulted in an equally amazing first date.
Ultimately no one really knows what they are doing, but we all act as if we do to somehow seem like we have control over something really ephemeral.
After any first date you are somewhat excited about, as soon as you finish recapping the night to your friends (“He said he’s into hiking and the outdoors, but I think we could work through it? Just do the industry standard desperately grasping for an inside joke from the night before text. I think it’s cute even to do the “had a great time/[joke referencing something obscure from the night]/hope you got home ok” text that night, but I personally like that sort of thing.
Other advice: If you actually like a girl, just text her first before you do a ton of tweets the next morning.
“ – The honest truth is that most guys are very dry and draining when it involves engaging in phone conversations.