Date the less-than-dapper dude who might not be the best arm candy.
I have found that you can always find someone who will agree with you when you are looking for confirmation about something negative because most people are negative.
Most people love to commiserate, and most people really like having others commiserate with them.
" I have found that you can meet amazing people anywhere and at any age. So many people listen to their friends or the monkey chatter in their own head telling them all the obstacles that stand in their way as a single woman over the age of 35. I don't listen to friends like this, because I find that many singles have attitudes that are just ridiculous.
They love to buy into the negative, instead of the positive.
I hear so many people who live in Los Angeles tell me that Los Angeles is the worst place to date if you're a woman over 35. It's the biggest city in the country and there's no one to meet if you're a woman over 35? What happens is that people will manifest the things on which they focus.